Listening to npr today... an old cast of a girl who is writing a song about her break-up with her ex...but she doesn't actually write songs....and so, she wants some professional advice. seeing as phil collins has significant meaning to the now broken-up couple...she decides to cotanct phil collins. thiss achieved, she and phil have a real heart-to-heart..there is mention of how the only way to still feel 'that strongly' about something is to not let it go...and that is what she is doing with her song, so says the girl and phil. her song, thanks to some help from friends, actually turns out not so bad...phil likes the line "You do me no good, in fact, you do me bad".